You will feel the pull and the bruise in the same hour.
The two of you
Aquarius. You feel real when you are allowed to be slightly apart. People see the difference, and the idea that arrived before the room was ready.
Scorpio. You feel real when it is honest, even if it is heavy. People see the intensity. They trust you with the thing they will not say elsewhere.
What wears it out
A room that wants you normal drains you. So does closeness that asks you to merge.
Small talk that asks you to be fine drains you. So does a secret kept from you.
Aquarius needs to talk before it feels real and does not like to be moved once settled. Scorpio feels it first and explains later and does not like to be moved once settled.
The attraction and the irritation are not two stories. You noticed each other because it is not smooth. Do not call that a mistake, and do not call the fight passion every time. Together, it shows up as status, and whose name is on it. The other way around, it shows up as home and family.
This is the answer people want before anyone knows a birth time. Two real people have more than a sun sign. If it matters, cast both charts.