This can be lovely, and it will not chase you. Someone has to take the step.
The two of you
Aquarius. You feel real when you are allowed to be slightly apart. People see the difference, and the idea that arrived before the room was ready.
Sagittarius. You feel real when the horizon is still open. People see the range, and the person who makes a bigger story believable.
What wears it out
A room that wants you normal drains you. So does closeness that asks you to merge.
A small life with the door shut drains you. So does being managed for your own good.
Aquarius needs to talk before it feels real and does not like to be moved once settled. Sagittarius runs hot and wants it now and adapts quickly, and may not finish.
There is a real opening, and it is quiet. If you wait for a bigger sign, you will miss a good one. Together, it shows up as friends and a future built with other people. The other way around, it shows up as talk and the everyday back-and-forth.
This is the answer people want before anyone knows a birth time. Two real people have more than a sun sign. If it matters, cast both charts.