You cannot look away. You also cannot turn them into you.
The two of you
Taurus. You feel real when something stays. People see the calm, and the person who can be leaned on.
Scorpio. You feel real when it is honest, even if it is heavy. People see the intensity. They trust you with the thing they will not say elsewhere.
What wears it out
Being rushed drains you. A plan changed under you feels like disrespect, not flexibility.
Small talk that asks you to be fine drains you. So does a secret kept from you.
Taurus wants something solid and does not like to be moved once settled. Scorpio feels it first and explains later and does not like to be moved once settled.
Each of you is what the other is not. It holds when the difference stays interesting. It breaks when one of you starts correcting the other. Together, it shows up as the person across the table. The other way around, it shows up as the person across the table.
This is the answer people want before anyone knows a birth time. Two real people have more than a sun sign. If it matters, cast both charts.