Sun and rising
You enter through another person. The sun is about partnership.
Taurus is who gets there first. People see the calm, and the person who can be leaned on. Scorpio is what you are actually doing. You feel real when it is honest, even if it is heavy. Small talk that asks you to be fine drains you. So does a secret kept from you.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time