Sun and rising
The face at the door is not the private one. Home is where the sun actually sits.
Leo is who gets there first. People see the warmth, and the person the room turns toward. Scorpio is what you are actually doing. You feel real when it is honest, even if it is heavy. Small talk that asks you to be fine drains you. So does a secret kept from you.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time