Sun and rising
You enter, and the real stake is what you share and cannot take lightly.
Aries is who gets there first. People see the one who goes first. The heat is obvious, and so is the courage. Scorpio is what you are actually doing. You feel real when it is honest, even if it is heavy. Small talk that asks you to be fine drains you. So does a secret kept from you.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time