Sun and rising
You enter through another person. The sun is about partnership.
Virgo is who gets there first. People see the competence. They hand you what is messy. Pisces is what you are actually doing. You feel real when you do not have to harden yet. A demand to be definite before you are ready drains you. So does a hard room with nowhere to retreat.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time