Sun and rising
You enter, and the real stake is what you share and cannot take lightly.
Leo is who gets there first. People see the warmth, and the person the room turns toward. Pisces is what you are actually doing. You feel real when you do not have to harden yet. A demand to be definite before you are ready drains you. So does a hard room with nowhere to retreat.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time