Sun and rising
The face at the door is not the private one. Home is where the sun actually sits.
Sagittarius is who gets there first. People see the range, and the person who makes a bigger story believable. Pisces is what you are actually doing. You feel real when you do not have to harden yet. A demand to be definite before you are ready drains you. So does a hard room with nowhere to retreat.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time