You will feel the pull and the bruise in the same hour.
The two of you
Libra. You feel real when the air between people is fair. People see the ease, and the one who makes it pleasant.
Capricorn. You feel real when you have carried it and it held. People see the backbone. They give you the responsibility.
What wears it out
Being forced to decide while everyone else stays nice drains you. So does a peace that costs you.
Being the only adult drains you. Rest can feel like failure even when you need it.
Libra needs to talk before it feels real and starts things. Capricorn wants something solid and starts things.
The attraction and the irritation are not two stories. You noticed each other because it is not smooth. Do not call that a mistake, and do not call the fight passion every time. Together, it shows up as home and family. The other way around, it shows up as status, and whose name is on it.
This is the answer people want before anyone knows a birth time. Two real people have more than a sun sign. If it matters, cast both charts.