This can be lovely, and it will not chase you. Someone has to take the step.
The two of you
Gemini. You feel real when the conversation is alive. People see the quick mind, and someone who can talk to anyone.
Aries. You feel real when something is starting. People see the one who goes first. The heat is obvious, and so is the courage.
What wears it out
Being told to pick one thing and stay there drains you. Silence that means you should stop asking does too.
Waiting drains you. So does a room that manages you instead of letting you move.
Gemini needs to talk before it feels real and adapts quickly, and may not finish. Aries runs hot and wants it now and starts things.
There is a real opening, and it is quiet. If you wait for a bigger sign, you will miss a good one. Together, it shows up as friends and a future built with other people. The other way around, it shows up as talk and the everyday back-and-forth.
This is the answer people want before anyone knows a birth time. Two real people have more than a sun sign. If it matters, cast both charts.