You will feel the pull and the bruise in the same hour.
The two of you
Aries. You feel real when something is starting. People see the one who goes first. The heat is obvious, and so is the courage.
Capricorn. You feel real when you have carried it and it held. People see the backbone. They give you the responsibility.
What wears it out
Waiting drains you. So does a room that manages you instead of letting you move.
Being the only adult drains you. Rest can feel like failure even when you need it.
Aries runs hot and wants it now and starts things. Capricorn wants something solid and starts things.
The attraction and the irritation are not two stories. You noticed each other because it is not smooth. Do not call that a mistake, and do not call the fight passion every time. Together, it shows up as status, and whose name is on it. The other way around, it shows up as home and family.
This is the answer people want before anyone knows a birth time. Two real people have more than a sun sign. If it matters, cast both charts.