This can be lovely, and it will not chase you. Someone has to take the step.
The two of you
Aries. You feel real when something is starting. People see the one who goes first. The heat is obvious, and so is the courage.
Aquarius. You feel real when you are allowed to be slightly apart. People see the difference, and the idea that arrived before the room was ready.
What wears it out
Waiting drains you. So does a room that manages you instead of letting you move.
A room that wants you normal drains you. So does closeness that asks you to merge.
Aries runs hot and wants it now and starts things. Aquarius needs to talk before it feels real and does not like to be moved once settled.
There is a real opening, and it is quiet. If you wait for a bigger sign, you will miss a good one. Together, it shows up as friends and a future built with other people. The other way around, it shows up as talk and the everyday back-and-forth.
This is the answer people want before anyone knows a birth time. Two real people have more than a sun sign. If it matters, cast both charts.