Sun and rising
You enter through friends and a future, not through a private confession.
Sagittarius is who gets there first. People see the range, and the person who makes a bigger story believable. Libra is what you are actually doing. You feel real when the air between people is fair. Being forced to decide while everyone else stays nice drains you. So does a peace that costs you.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time