Sun and rising
The face at the door is not the private one. Home is where the sun actually sits.
Cancer is who gets there first. People see the care. They come to you when something hurts. Libra is what you are actually doing. You feel real when the air between people is fair. Being forced to decide while everyone else stays nice drains you. So does a peace that costs you.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time