Sun and rising
You enter quietly. The sun is behind the door, and people meet a softer front.
Virgo is who gets there first. People see the competence. They hand you what is messy. Leo is what you are actually doing. You feel real when you are actually seen. Being ignored drains you. Polite affection that never becomes admiration does too.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time