Sun and rising
The face at the door is not the private one. Home is where the sun actually sits.
Taurus is who gets there first. People see the calm, and the person who can be leaned on. Leo is what you are actually doing. You feel real when you are actually seen. Being ignored drains you. Polite affection that never becomes admiration does too.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time