This can be lovely, and it will not chase you. Someone has to take the step.
The two of you
Scorpio. You feel real when it is honest, even if it is heavy. People see the intensity. They trust you with the thing they will not say elsewhere.
Virgo. You feel real when the thing works. People see the competence. They hand you what is messy.
What wears it out
Small talk that asks you to be fine drains you. So does a secret kept from you.
A mess you are not allowed to fix drains you. So does thanks that stays vague.
Scorpio feels it first and explains later and does not like to be moved once settled. Virgo wants something solid and adapts quickly, and may not finish.
There is a real opening, and it is quiet. If you wait for a bigger sign, you will miss a good one. Together, it shows up as friends and a future built with other people. The other way around, it shows up as talk and the everyday back-and-forth.
This is the answer people want before anyone knows a birth time. Two real people have more than a sun sign. If it matters, cast both charts.