You will feel the pull and the bruise in the same hour.
The two of you
Sagittarius. You feel real when the horizon is still open. People see the range, and the person who makes a bigger story believable.
Pisces. You feel real when you do not have to harden yet. People see the softness, and someone who understands before the explanation.
What wears it out
A small life with the door shut drains you. So does being managed for your own good.
A demand to be definite before you are ready drains you. So does a hard room with nowhere to retreat.
Sagittarius runs hot and wants it now and adapts quickly, and may not finish. Pisces feels it first and explains later and adapts quickly, and may not finish.
The attraction and the irritation are not two stories. You noticed each other because it is not smooth. Do not call that a mistake, and do not call the fight passion every time. Together, it shows up as home and family. The other way around, it shows up as status, and whose name is on it.
This is the answer people want before anyone knows a birth time. Two real people have more than a sun sign. If it matters, cast both charts.