Sun and rising
You enter through another person. The sun is about partnership.
Cancer is who gets there first. People see the care. They come to you when something hurts. Capricorn is what you are actually doing. You feel real when you have carried it and it held. Being the only adult drains you. Rest can feel like failure even when you need it.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time