Sun and rising
You enter, and the real stake is what you share and cannot take lightly.
Cancer is who gets there first. People see the care. They come to you when something hurts. Aquarius is what you are actually doing. You feel real when you are allowed to be slightly apart. A room that wants you normal drains you. So does closeness that asks you to merge.
Whole-sign houses, from the rising. Your moon, and the degree, are not in this.
Use your birth time